For the Ones Who Finally See Through the Bullsh*t
He doesn’t just break hearts — he breaks realities.
One day he loves you.
The next day he ghosts.
He makes you question yourself, your memory, your worth.
Then spins it all so he walks away the victim.
Let’s stop romanticizing it. Let’s stop calling it “confused,” “damaged,” or “emotionally unavailable.”
Let’s call him what he is:
A manipulator.
A liar.
A man who plays broken so he never has to grow up.
A man who builds his identity by tearing down women who loved him too long and forgave him too much.
The Honest Truth?
He knows exactly what he’s doing.
He knows when he’s lying.
He knows when he’s twisting your words.
He knows when he’s keeping you just close enough to hope and just far enough to hurt.
This isn’t accidental. It’s strategic.
He studies you.
He learns what to say to calm you down, what to hide to keep you quiet, what to dangle in front of you to make you stay.
And every time you give him another chance, he doesn’t get better — he gets bolder.
These Men Aren’t Confused — They’re Cowards.
They don’t want love.
They want access.
They want comfort without commitment.
Sex without strings.
Loyalty without giving a single ounce of clarity in return.
They thrive in confusion because confusion makes you easier to control.
They Cry About “Toxic Women,” But Leave a Trail of Emotional Carnage
They’ll call their exes crazy, but won’t mention the years of gaslighting.
They’ll play the victim, but won’t talk about how they started the fire.
They’ll say you’re “too emotional,” when in reality, you just finally reacted to the mind games.
They’ll walk into your life like a rescue mission and leave like a wrecking ball — then expect a thank you card for “trying.”
So Who Are These Men, Really?
They are:
- Unhealed boys in grown men’s bodies.
- Insecure egos hiding behind fake confidence.
- Users who confuse control with love.
- Men who never had to face consequences — because too many women gave them the benefit of the doubt.
They aren’t partners. They’re predators — emotionally, sometimes financially, sometimes physically.
They use love like a fishing hook. And when you’re finally bleeding enough to crawl away, they act like you’re the one who gave up.
If You’ve Been With One — This Part Is for You:
You’re not stupid.
You’re not weak.
You’re not “too sensitive.”
You were targeted because you’re loyal. Empathetic. Hopeful.
You believed in the version of him he sold you — and there’s no shame in that.
But now you know.
Now you see it.
Now it’s time to believe yourself more than you believe his potential.
You’re not alone. You’re not crazy. You’re just waking up.
And that’s when everything changes.
Until next time,
