The Messy Middle
The Messy Middle · June 26, 2025
I used to believe I was something special. A rare blend of sweetness and effort—lovingly made, sealed tight, and labeled with care. I wasn’t just any jar on the shelf; I was the one he said he couldn’t wait to enjoy… later. So I sat there. Tucked gently into the back of the cabinet. “Just for now,” he said. “When things settle down,” he promised. At first, I believed him. Every time the cabinet opened and he reached in, my hopes rattled like the lid loosening. But he always...
The Messy Middle · May 15, 2025
We used to worry about catfishing. Now we have to worry about facefishing. If you’re dating in 2025, buckle up—because trust, intimacy, and reality just got a software update. And spoiler alert: the update includes deepfake technology, face-swapping apps, AI voice clones, and partners who will literally lie to your face… with your own face. Wait, What’s a Deepfake? A deepfake is when someone uses artificial intelligence to create a hyper-realistic video of someone saying or doing things...
The Messy Middle · May 06, 2025
Let’s talk about the type of man who drinks like it’s a sport, lies like it’s a hobby, uses women like accessories — and still manages to think he’s better than everyone else. You know the one. He’s loud. He’s bitter. He throws around judgments like he’s been nominated for sainthood — usually while slurring his words and smelling like bad decisions. This one’s for him. And for everyone who’s ever had to survive someone like him. The Barstool Prophet He drinks almost daily....
The Messy Middle · March 11, 2025
Master flirting without cringe, active listening that sparks intimacy, and vulnerability that builds unshakable connections. Your relationships will never be the same.
The Messy Middle · March 06, 2025
I received this in my inbox at 1:47 AM. No name. No return address. Just these words that felt like they were written with shaking hands and a steel spine. She asked me to share it. So here it is, unedited, in her words: Dear BoundarySolutions, I've been following your blog for months, always in incognito mode. I need you to share my story. Don't clean it up. Don't make it pretty. It's not pretty. Maybe some woman out there is reading this in her bathroom, with the water running so he won't...
The Messy Middle · March 03, 2025
Learn 5 science-backed strategies to navigate tough talks without toxicity. Transform conflicts into connection with our step-by-step guide—plus get a free empathy toolkit!
The Messy Middle · March 01, 2025
Learn how to decipher mixed signals in dating, handle ambiguity with confidence, and navigate through uncertain relationship dynamics.
The Messy Middle · February 16, 2025
For the Ones Who Finally See Through the Bullsh*t He doesn’t just break hearts — he breaks realities. One day he loves you. The next day he ghosts. He makes you question yourself, your memory, your worth. Then spins it all so he walks away the victim. Let’s stop romanticizing it. Let’s stop calling it “confused,” “damaged,” or “emotionally unavailable.” Let’s call him what he is: A manipulator. A liar. A man who plays broken so he never has to grow up. A man who builds his...
The Messy Middle · February 15, 2025
In a world where relationships can be as confusing as assembling IKEA furniture, we often seek guidance from those who have mastered the art of love. Today, we have the pleasure of chatting with Dr. Ina Ulleberg, who is referred to by her clients as Dr. Cupid, a renowned relationship expert known for her unconventional yet effective advice on matters of the heart. Getting to Know Dr. Cupid : Dr. Cupid , with her bow and arrow of wisdom, has been in the business of love for over a decade. With a...
The Messy Middle · February 14, 2025
Okay, let's get real for a second – Valentine's Day can seriously drain your wallet! But hey, who said you need to spend a fortune to show someone you care? After years of both nailing it and totally messing up V-Day plans, I've learned that the most memorable moments often cost next to nothing. Here are some budget-friendly ideas that'll make your partner's heart melt: 1. The "Memory Lane" Movie Night Grab some popcorn, build a blanket fort (yes, adults can do that too!), and create a...